Overcome Fear of Rejection

There is a quick strategy to allow you to overcome fear of rejection. Adjust your view on life and separate all that goes on into two separate things. Input- things that are under your control and output- everything else.

Concentrate on the things which are under your control and forget about anything else as well as the other persons reaction or choice. The latter is not important at all. The truth is, it is absolutely irrelevant. This way of life needs some practice. But if you think rationally it makes sense.

This really doesn't mean, that you should not know your preferred consequence. On the contrary, it's important to know the wanted consequence, but it is counter productive to focus on it.

You continuously have to focus on the input, give it your very best shot and that is pretty much all you can do.

The reality might grow even more exciting, you're able to begin making the most of the "game" and can become curious to see what is going to occur if I do this... or that...

This will work not just on overcoming fear of rejection, but will help you to develop your life in every way.

The only thing you are able to do to push your limits and live a more intriguing life is to try, try and try. When you try, you is going to also often have a different outcome than you may like. This is just how things work.

But the key here is to always keep trying, keep approaching people because life is short and will go by pretty quickly.

Fear, like the fear of rejection will always be there as long as we keep pushing ourselves, but your comfort zone will expand, you will become more comfortable in living.

You can easily also do it step by step. First smile to a interesting stranger, smile to a second beautiful stranger. With a third person you find appealing, try to change some words and so it goes... step-by-step, always try.

We are all nervous, even people who seem confident, not often are and we are all flattered if someone makes an effort to approach us. All of us.

It is not realistic to expect that you will end up immune to rejection, but this view is going to help a great deal and who knows, maybe someday you will be immune to approaching gorgeous strangers. Or maybe it isn't needed to completely overcome fear of rejection, since these kinds of little fears are a part of what makes us human.

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